Party or Die: A Theology of Fun

A eulogy:

Dearly beloved, we gather here today to bid a fond and reverent farewell to a once-dominant figure in modern faith culture: the Unfun Christian.

They were known by many names—Sister Solemn, Brother Dour, Captain Can't-Take-a-Joke—but we knew them best by their silence at church potlucks, their suspicious glare at spontaneous laughter, and their legendary ability to find the cloud in every silver lining.

Let us remember the Unfun Christian’s legacy: their unyielding commitment to theological correctness—even if it killed the vibe. Their bravery in frowning through baby showers. Their silent protest against glitter, tambourines, and youth group games. They walked the narrow road, alright—but refused to skip.

And yet, even as we mourn their departure, we celebrate a rebirth. For it turns out, joy is not the enemy of reverence. Gladness does not dilute holiness. And laughter? Laughter is not a theological loophole—it’s a divine gift. Scripture calls our God "the only blessed [happy] God." A party-thrower over prodigals, a Creator of platypuses and sunsets. A Father who welcomes His children with jokes and jubilation.

So let us not cry for Unfun Christians. Let us remember them, lovingly—and then do exactly what would’ve made them uncomfortable: throw a party. Skip like calves from the stall. Embarrass your kids with a marshmallow ambush. Quote Psalm 126 like it’s a Rascal Flatts lyric.

Because if we truly believe we’ve been rescued, forgiven, and adopted by a joy-filled God…
What’s more Christian than having a little fun?

Rest in peace, Unfun Christian.
May your joy finally be made full.

📚 Links & Resources

Want to dive deeper into the joy-filled theology we’re celebrating today? Here are some books and resources mentioned (or that pair perfectly with this episode):

• Real Bad Guys: A Story About Us by Jimmy Needham
  A creative, honest look at sin, grace, and the scandalous goodness of God.
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• The Book That Made Your World by Vishal Mangalwadi
  A fascinating exploration of how the Bible shaped Western culture—and why it still matters.
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• The Screwtape Letters by C.S. Lewis
  Classic. Clever. A devilish look at the Christian life, full of irony and insight.
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• Safely Home by Randy Alcorn
  A powerful novel that glimpses into heavenly joy and the cost of following Christ.
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